Sense of belongings

I guess 4 months is enough for one to get used to and get some sense of belongings to a place. It happens to me and Sweden. I’m not surprised anymore to go to a local groceries store to collect my mail, nor forgetting myself to keep to the right of the elevator lane.

Travelling around Europe during the end of 2009 even made that sense more apparent to me. The more you travel, the more you realize ‘Stockholm is the best’, ranging from people, scenery to the little convenient things the government has carefully planned and executed for you. It is that same home-sick feeling when I left Vietnam for Singapore, or left Singapore for Sweden. And you realize, you miss the place because you miss the people.

3 months ago, I woke up looked outside the window and said: “wow, it’s snowing!” Now it has become “My god, it’s snowing, again!”

Life is kind of a cycle. You born. Meet people. Get fucked (sorry don’t take it literally). Feels down and something don’t want to live anymore. Then you think through, learn the lesson, and become wiser. That’s how you grow up.

5 months into Stockholm, a handful of ups and downs, unforgettable moments of joys and laughers. People become a bit wiser.

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What NOC wants us to learn

i realized lately that i have problem expressing myself in both written and oral forms. So being inspired by my prof and my ex-boss back in Eusoff, I decide to put my thoughts down into blog. pardon me if you find some sentence hard to understand, because it’s directly written from my thoughts with little or no amendment.

The first one i want to talk about is what NOC wants students to achieve.

I was talking to Thet the other day about leadership and NOC. that leads me back to the question: What exactly does NOC want students to achieve through the program?

To motivate entrepreneurial spirits? No need, because those who are selected already have.

Or is it to immerse the best students in new environment to:

1. build a network with the companies?
hmm probably. But I doubt if this is among the main focus on NOC program. Would the money spent on NOC be better spent in regard to this matter, for example, setting up another

2. build their softskill? hmm maybe. but we can still do this in Singapore with CCAs, iLead and all that, right.

3. build their hardskills?
I dont think so. Even though we are thrown to various technology-based companies, what we do here are pretty much varied. Some are asked to do admin work, some sales, PR work, etc. For NCST there are a countable number of students who aren’t assigned with the work related to their field.
In short, the random factor is high (at least for NCST students). It should be much slower for the other colleges (since SV, BV, BJ and SH are very much towards tech,

recently I have some more understandings about entrepreneurship, these are really based on my personal experiences rather than just rattling off from any entrepreneurship slide elsewhere.

1. entrepreneurship is about consistency. You ingrain a habit within you and stick to it. not a sprint but a marathon. motivation is what gets you started, habit is what keeps you going.
not sure about others but most singapore students i met (me included) have this last-minute work culture. i think it goes against the consistency principle above.
- one claim that each person has different effectiveness-stimulator.
- true, so if you’re a last-minute person, why not break your work into pieces and set your own deadline for each.

talking on consistency, i recall a quote i read somewhere on bitsofwisdow.com saying: “Motivation is what gets you started, but habit is what keeps you going”.
I’ve created a habit of jogging for 30mins at least 2 times a week for me, the other days are used for workout.

2. entrepreneurship is about network of trusted people.
that, i guess, is one of the purposes of noc programs. so the gang who go to noc together with you are those (supposedly) closest to you. these people will become your best friends, your partners in the future. because you spent enough time with them, working with them, so you know what they are capable of and have enough trusts on them.

so is university life. that’s why in university, we should explore more, meet more people, do more CCAs.

As I observe, different students have totally different experience with NOC. Some worked very hard, earned themselves hard-core skills, company’s trust and set up a subsidiary in Singapore. Some realize their potentials, dreams, or some simple thing like how small they are in this world (as least for me).

One thing I found interesting about NOC is peer-learning.
Being here almost 6 months, I’d have to say most of the things I’ve learnt, either knowledge-base, inspiration-base, realization-base are from the peers around me, rather than the courses I take or the work I do for my company. Imagine throwing a group of top-notched, diversified and knowledge-thirsty students together in some land for 1 year, what would each individual become afterwards?
Again this is my personal opinion, not all the people i know are aware of this peer-learning, they rather just stick to their own world and assume the others are not worth their time. You know who.

updated: I just talked to hari about what NOC wanted students to achieve. His take: NOC just provides opportunities for students, what to be learnt in the end are up to/different for each individual.

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Dumb moment

I opened the toilet door, got inside, turned on the light, closed the door, turned off the light. Looked at what I had just done and laughed at myself.
This already happened several times.

Edit: Happened again even after I posted this entry.

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Envelope

“I found one of these with your name on it”.
My colleague handed me an envelope and walked out of the room for a while.

I opened the envelope. It is his wedding picture that I asked for 5 or 6 weeks ago! that was so lovely.

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Forgive

He who cannot forgive others destroys a bridge over which he himself must pass – George Herbert

Nghe đơn giản mà, phải ko Huy?

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Just realize

…that I’m not crazy enough.

Me on Helsinki Trip

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Lan’s birthday video

I made this video on Lan’s birthday (Nov 07) . This is my first video ever made. Thanks to the time spent in EusoffWorks.

I realize the importance of multimedia in conveying spirit and inspiring people. I wish I could have taken video editing more seriously.

Still, the video is not too bad, though. Enjoy!

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Stockholm random art

On my walk to work

Stockholm random art?

Stockholm random art?

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27 things you should do before graduation

Here are the list of 27 things I think I’ll try to do before graduation. And you should do it, too!

Some of the things on this list I’ve already done or have been doing, some are not. But of course I’ll try to do as many as I could throughout the rest 3 years of my university life.

Here we go, straight from point 1 to point 27.

  1. Prepare an elevator pitch that sells YOU.
  2. Ask yourself: “What am I living for?” and try answering that in 1 sentence or 2.
  3. Don’t try to please everyone. There are so many bad and jealous people in the world. If they hate you, let them. The more successful you are, the more people hate you.
  4. Get into a relationship. College is the best time for a relationship. When you’re in it, don’t think about how you 2 are going be in future! (But don’t get into 1 just for the sake of not wanting to be single)
  5. Make friend with a professor; see how you can learn from him/her and how he/she can learn from you.
  6. Sometimes, send someone you love a postcard, even if he/she just stays 1-minute walking distance away from you.
  7. Keep a logbook. Paste it on the wall and fill in daily. Imagine looking at these 5 years from now? Read More »
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this week diary

Monday 19.10.2009

Yet another the day at work, i dont know why i couldn’t really focus on the work in the afternoon. I kept distracting myself from other stuffs.

One day all children arrived today. Probably take me around 1 week to finish the book. must keep moving, cant let loose. must try to apply GTD to get them done. Must push yourself, can’t keep relaxing anymore.

Tuesday 20.10.2009

Làm xong dc 1 cái demo rồi, phew mừng quá, hic cái API gì mà khó xài dễ sợ (hay tại mình ngu?)

Đi xem 1 trận ice hockey, ôi mẹ ơi hay chưa từng thấy, trước giờ cứ tưởng ice hockey chán lắm, ai dè nó hay vậy, hoàn toàn bị cuốn vô trận đấu. thật xứng đáng với đồng tiền bỏ ra (cũng ko mắc lắm haha). ngồi trên khán đài mà mơ 1 ngày mình trượt băng giỏi như mấy thằng cầu thủ ở dưới… Read More »

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