One problem I unconsciously made frequently last time:
I was constantly trying to give people advice without trying to truly listen to their stories. Whenever a thought came up to mind while listening to someone’s story, I immediately either
- try to cut him and speak what I thought.
- stop listening to him, just waiting for him to finish his story, then I talk.
I was a bad listener. Or just wasn’t mindful enough.
People said I’ve changed so much ever since. Having fixed that bad habit is one of the changes I realized lately.