— Huy Nguyen

I'm young and still trying

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Ngẩng đầu lên mà bước.

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can speak 5 languages: English, Malay, Tamil, Mandarin, Hokkien. She used to serve in the army. She’s Indian Singaporean.

She has a grandson who’s principal of a secondary school nearby. I’m sure he’s well-off enough to support her.

She said she does this job to make sure her muscles being exercised everyday, and will be doing this until she can’t.

Who knows what life brings when you give a smiley ‘good morning auntie’ everyday?

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I used to think I suck at designing. But not anymore.

The logo I’ve been doing for a conference I’m organizing. Ysummit.

Thanks Toan, Kim and Kelsie along the way.

Btw, happy birthday to An.

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The online social network, the blogosphere, or environments alike, have inherently ignited a bad side: They dilutes people into thinking they’re better, stronger than what they actually are, mainly due to social appraisal and social recognition.

Say you have a blog, you make a nice, well-thought blog entry, people read, give nice comments, have high regard of you. That’s fine. I think that’s good.
What’s not fine is how you perceive these feedback. Would you just appreciate their comments, appraisals, or would you start thinking you’ve achieved some kind of success due to the great social appraisal?

My suspect is that, there’s a high chance people will fall to the latter. And I think that is dangerous.

They’re easily illusioned by the social appraisal and thought they’re on the way to success, or they’ve achieved something of significance.

On the other side, such people that do real work with real impacts, are truly inspiring to me. Mohammad Yunus, Wendy Kopp are among the people that bring great source of inspirations to me.

I recall a question I asked myself some time ago about why people wanted to share emotional statuses update on facebook. My answer: People are lonely, they want to seek social consolation. But I believe the actual solution comes from their own thought and sanity.

Overtime, these social networks/blogospheres creates a notion of elitism among its members. Think of it along the line of an elitist group being impressed by each other. There’s a proverb in Vietnamese that nicely captures this: “Ếch ngồi đáy giếng” – a group of frogs staying at the bottom of the well.

I’m not saying being elitist is a bad thing, my point is it’s easy for those who are in the elitist group to indulge their attitude and make themselves feel special and superior.
I also do understand elitism is important.

It’s not easy to get yourself out of this elitist mode (at least for me), since this has been the motivation/relying point for those who never realize. Ever since I realized this, I’ve been struggling to position my head in the right direction. Stay humble, and assess yourself by not what people praises or criticize, but your own beliefs and judgment. Ask yourself: Are the works you do fake, or real?

You might ask then why do I start this blog? Am I wasting my time involving in this social circle rather than doing real work?
I use this blog to reflect my thoughts, to seek sanity through writing, and to share with the world my naive oppinions about the world.

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It’s interesting how RomCom movies can inspire you sometime.

I re-watched the movie “17 again” with a couple of friends. There is this part in the movie where the main character came back to visit his old highschool (where he was the basketball star). The conversation started between him and a janitor. Somewhere in the middle the old janitor told him: “We all wanted to live in the past”.

I shrugged and imagined how would I ever think of my university life 5 (or even 1) years from graduation.
I regretted not to do something in middleschool when I got into high school.
I regretted not to live certain lifestyles in high school when I got into college.

It’s still my choice now to make the rest of my college life something unforgettable and unregrettable! (though I never regretted the best 1 year of my life spending in Sweden!)

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People take close relationships for granted. Such relationships are parents or close friends (the kind of friends whom you share most of your secrets to)

People take parents, close friends for granted. They often make less effort to “please” / care for / think about them, as compared to new friends they’re making in the street.

Have you ever canceled a dinner with your closed friend for a meeting with a newly met (but potentially beneficial) one?

Or have you ever told your parents you’d be back home later than you promised them, just to hang out a little more with friends around?

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I’ll leave Stockholm tomorrow.
This is it. One year passed in a blink.

You changed my life, NCST. You really did.

They say leave the best for last. I say live the best for every moment. I think I did.

So that’s it. Endless dinners, endless movie nights, endless parties, endless drunk moments, endless swears. It ends here. Jasvind walking skeleton, Amelia Liaoooooo, huiqiii, andrew ching ga ling ga ling, sankar the indian and the rest of batch 10. I’ll wait for you in Singapore in 5 months with a bottle of Vodka ok? Remember to SAY MY NAMEEEEEE

Had a wonderful dinner and bonfire with the rest of the team. That lasted and marked my last dinner in Lappis. My last moment to see Gamla, walking around Stockholm. OMG I love this place so much.

And I’ll take every moment and live it out loud. I know this is the time. This is the time more than a name or faces in the crowd i know this is the time this is the time of my life.

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I thought and wrote about this a while back – but only now had I got chance to finish and publish. Enjoy!

Business Plan competitions, if poorly executed, will dilute and change the perception of participants, mostly students, about running a successful startup.

I’ve seen by my own eyes 2 startups, won first and second prizes of a somewhat famous innovation award in Europe, collapse within 2 years.

Business plan competition, depending on how it is organized and tailored, may have very different impacts.
I was taking some entrepreneurship course a while back in which we were asked to write a full-flesh business plan. My team sent in our business plan to a famous national-level business plan competition. We were very excited to receive the feedback for the first few rounds. We brainstormed, made changes to the plan and submitted to the final round.
To our astounishing surprise, all the teams that are selected as finalist already have a company running!

Then what’s the point of that business plan competition? Why not just organize some VC-funding events?
And why do these companies apply for this competition? Free money.

You probably must have read a lot about what makes a startup successful. I am going to restate 1 of the most important factors: The team.
These business plan competitions, how could they examine the team factor. Judge through the individual CVs? That’s individual’s performance. The team’s working cohesiveness is something that only time could prove.

If we think along these lines, then i think a business plan competition is of little usefulness. The more useful things are incubation programs that seed funds small startups (like KTH innovation, NUS Incubator, YC or  NDRC Launchpad).

All these being said, it’s still good to participate in a business plan. You get to hear feedback from experts. You get to meet people that share the same dreams, and even better if you win, you’ll get some cash, maybe some funds to start your business.

Talking about winning competition. I also saw people who won some competition, and suddenly changed attitude over the night of competition – They think they are better (i.e. more talented) after winning the competition.

That doesn’t make any sense right? I mean, not like stock market, your intelligence/knowledge level can’t shoot over night, right? The only thing that changes is your own perception about your talent, being affected by external factors.

All and all, don’t fall into the trap of thinking you’re talented when getting some prize over night. And be aware of business plan competition.

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Since young, everyone says I’m not good at writing / literature. My thoughts are dry. I always got low mark for the subject Literature. I believed everyone, for 20 years, taking for granted that I don’t have that “literaturistic” gene.

Until recently, I found out that is not true.

All those years, when I didn’t know what to write, it’s not because my limited literatur-istic” gene, it is because I didn’t have anything in mind to write. Reason: No reflection. No thinking-back. No synthesis thoughts.

That is the real problem. A big problem for me. Lucky that I found out.

Let me clear the misconception:

  • If you are good at explaining, you should be good at writing.
  • If you don’t know what to write (which is mostly the case for me – when it comes to writing report, blogging, all thing related), you weren’t observant / aware / clear about what happened, period. Nothing to do with your writing ability.

Maybe I’m taking the “good at writing” here literally. I’ve alway thought that “good at writing” is the ability to come up with flourish and lengthy things to add to your piece of essay, which, recently found out, is BSing.

The reason I had this misconception could date back to the 60s, during the time my Mom went to school. Her Literature teacher graded the essays by its length, using a unit of the maximum distance between the thumb and the middle finger when stretching the palm out. During my time, me and friends were usually (usually, not only) discussing how good the essay is in term of how many pages it filled. Same mentality, just that technology advanced a little bit.

I think there is no reason for anyone to not be good at explaining, if they are damn clear about the thing being explained. Someone might be better than someone else at explaining, but no one should be bad at it.

Again, I only realized this problem a couple of months back. For all those years, I’ve been looking at the wrong problem, thus has no solution in solving them. It is real dangerous had I not spotted this problem out.

So look back and reexamine your problems, are they really the real problems?

tl,dr: I found out I’m not good at explaning/writing because I wasn’t being observant / synthesis thinking, not because I can’t do BSing. It is important to spot out the real problem.

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A reminder

Source: bitsofwisdom

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